Friday, 10 June 2011

Wahai kaum Adam

Semalam...kawan mama Arina budak PC datang melawat baby faris...sambil2 dia datang ke taman mama ni melawat Anati yg juga dalam pantang...( ramai budak pc dok area jb ni...kamal azmy, arina, anati, joy, asmaha, kamilah)

Sambil sembang2 dengan dia...tiba2 terpancul topic hangat lelaki berkahwin lebih dari satu..poligami lah senang cerita...

For those yg tahu cerita...tahu lah mama ni dari family poligami...my mom second wife...erm..banyak stigma kan..second wife ni jahat...nooo....tak semua...banyak org fikir second wife ni bolot semua...noooo...tak semua...cerita mama ni..terbalik..but..itu kite simpan tepi...ini nak cerita pasal lain...

Kawan mama masa medical dulu...dah beristeri 2...ok...ikin and sheem..korang mesti tahukan...aku pun waddah update...but kite simpan aje nama dia..

For me...yg dah rasa penangan ber-ibu ramai ni...dan berkongsi ayah...kesan dia pada mama dan adik mama sgt2 sakit...mama tahu...sebab mama hidup dari kecil hingga besar berkongsi ayah...

Mama cakap pada Arina...'' i did tell my husband...if u think about getting married more then one...please...don't think about me...i'm adult and old..i can manage to control the feeling...but please think about the kids... i know..becoz i've through it 28 yrs of my life...the kids who suffer more...if u really want a eternal happiness...please fight for your akhirah...becoz when u are in jannah..there will be 72 wives waiting for u there....if u want a dunia happiness...please make it happen in the house with ur wife and kids...guide them to be good and remember...what we want is the eternal happiness and not this temporary nafsu that will eventually lead us to hell fire..''

so...for those who think that they can do justice if they have more wife..think again..u don't want to be those who having burden on ur shoulder walking in hot weather and making ur way to hell fire in the day of judgment......

ps: tepuk sebelah tgn takkan berbunyi...fikir2 kan..:)

1 comment:

sheemmd said...

yup..agree wit u..bg aku kalau kail pnjg sejengkal lautan dlm jgn diduga..ramai lelaki bila nk poligami selalu ckp nk ikut sunnah nabi..tp solat, puasa suma ke laut.apatah lg nk pimpin n jaga welfare wives n kids..silap2 duit rokok pun isteri yg tanggung...huhu